Thursday, September 8, 2011

Looking for answers in the London riots


The recent London riots raise the question of how can we motivate young people to do the right thing? We all know that stealing is wrong. We all know that destroying other people’s property is wrong. But given half a chance, thousands of school aged children joined the rioting and the looting. Many were middle class, university educated who couldn’t resist the temptation of getting a new pair of shoes or a plasma TV for free.
The mother of a young woman filmed looting, spoke of her shame and despair at her daughter's lawless actions. The daughter was seen on TV brazenly trying on training shoes taken from a sports shop in Tottenham, North London. She made no attempt to hide her identity as she joined others rifling through stock.
You may be worried about the behaviour of your own teenage children (or future teenage children)? Do you really know what they get up to on Saturday nights? Are they involved in stealing, graffiti or other anti-social behaviour? What can you do?
How can we motivate a young person (or in fact any person) to be a peaceful and productive member of society?
David Cameron the British Prime Minister proposed two solutions “to mend our broken society”. 1. Getting tough 2. Changing government policies.
Getting tough
Cameron said he hoped courts would use exemplary sentences to deter future riots. He praised the sentencing of two people to four years jail for inciting riots on Facebook – riots that never took place. Cameron has backed calls to withdraw welfare benefits from rioters and to evict those who live in government housing. He also floated the idea of restricting the use of services such as Facebook, Twitter and Blackberry Messenger.
Government policies
Cameron also said that “our security fight back must be matched by a social fight back. We must fight against the attitudes and assumptions that have bought parts of our society to this shocking state.” He went on … “it’s about parenting, it’s about discipline in schools, it’s about making sure we have a welfare system that doesn’t reward idleness.” The government plans to review whether current government programs are strong enough to address the underlying problems.
Prince Charles proposed a more simple solution …. “what rioters really needed was to be tired out with extra-curricular activities such as sport at school.”
Do we really think that government policies and school sports are going to motivate our young people to do the right thing? Anyone with teenage children will know that the problem is more complex and deeply rooted.
A better solution
I’m now going to be radical and propose a solution you might laugh at or may never have considered.
Introduce your children to Jesus Christ in the Bible. The Bible makes a big claim which is also testified to by the experience of many. The Bible claims that getting to know Jesus Christ and learning about his grace (generosity to us) will transform even the most obstinate and selfish person. The apostle Paul wrote: "For the grace of God that brings salvation has appeared to all men. It teaches us to say “No” to ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright and godly lives in this present age, while we wait for the blessed hope—the glorious appearing of our great God and Savior, Jesus Christ,  who gave himself for us to redeem us from all wickedness and to purify for himself a people that are his very own, eager to do what is good."(Titus 2:11-14 NIV)
You want to motivate people to be eager to do good? Introduce them to Jesus Christ. There’s only one way to find out whether this will work or not …..

Friday, July 15, 2011

Work Smarter Live Better

I read a book recently called Work Smarter Live Better. I thought I'd share a few things I learnt from the book.

The book is based on the premise: your time is valuable - don't waste it! This can be done by increasing efficiency and effectiveness.

Increase Efficiency
1. Have an effective filing system and time management system. Don't use your desk or your email Inbox as a filing system or task management system. Don't even leave Post-it notes and other bits of work around your desk to remind you of work which needs to be done. This should be handled by your Task Management system.

2. Don't multi handle information. Decide whether you will do something straight away (short tasks), otherwise diarise when you will do it.

3. Avoid interruptions. eg. Don't check your email several times per day. Set aside one or two times in the day when you will answer emails. If you manage people, only allow them to interrupt you for non urgent tasks at certain times of the day. Work outside the office more. Write out three things which are time wasters and work out a strategy to overcome these.

Increase Effectiveness
There's not much point being efficient (having a clean desk) if you are not effective. Every quarter write out what High Impact Activities (HIAs) you want to concentrate on during the next 3 months. Ask your peers to review these. Then at the end of each week set aside two hours to plan the following week. Do this by reading over your HIAs first. Diarise into your week when you are going to concentrate on these HIAs.

Wednesday, March 23, 2011

127 Hours

Would you cut off your arm to save your life? I recently watched the movie 127 Hours based on the true story of Aron Ralston whose arm is pinned under a boulder while canyoning alone near Moab, Utah. Aron's water has run out (he is forced to drink his urine), he has little chance of being rescued because he is out of sight and he is beginning to hallucinate. His only chance to live is to self amputate (with a blunt pocket knife) and to stay conscious so he doesn't bleed to death. Many people choose not to see the movie because of this scene but it wasn't that bad because it is in the context of .... I'm going to die anyway  ... I'm going to lose my arm anyway ... so I've got nothing to lose.


The amazing thing is that this accident saved Aron's life in more ways than one. Aron admits to being a selfish loner who didn't care much about his family. While trapped in the canyon, he has plenty of time to reflect on his selfishness and to consider what he really wants out of life. If only he can escape and be given a second chance at life. (See video interview). 


Jesus taught a similar thing re: chopping off your hand in order to save your life in Matthew 18:8. If your hand or your foot causes you to sin cut it off and throw it away. It is better for you to enter life maimed or crippled than to have two hands or two feet and be thrown into eternal fire.


In order to have life we must deal with our sin problem in a radical way.

Thursday, March 3, 2011

Most people I know think that I'm crazy

This is the title of a great song by Billy Thorpe and the Aztecs (an Australian band from 1972). I don't know if Billy Thorpe was a Christian or not but the lyrics of his song reflect what it is to be a true Christian.

Most people I know think that I'm crazy and
I know at times I act a little hazy but
if thats my way
and you should know it then
in every way help me to show it.

oooooooo yeah, yeah, yeah

For most of my life I lived a delusion yes
material gain has caused me confusion but
slowly in time I learned that my place is to
tell all that I meet the glory that God is

oooooooo yeah, yeah

and thats why .... Most people I know think that I'm crazy etc.


This song reflects what the apostle Paul says in 2 Corinthians 5:13 "If we are out of our mind, it is for the sake of God." ie. Many people perceive (real) Christians as crazy as they urge all around them to turn back to God and take Jesus seriously. It's just not polite in this post modern world to be urging your beliefs onto other people (people say or think). But the apostle Paul doesn't care what other people think. All he cares about is pleasing God and urging people to be saved while there's still time. 

Click here to read the full text of what drives Paul on to be so counter cultural. What do you think about his reasons? And that's why .........


Tuesday, February 22, 2011

The Days Fly By

The days fly by like a fast moving train,
each day a familiar pattern in my brain.

The days fly by like a TV ad,
Only yesterday I was little boy, once a young man, now a tired old dad.

The days fly by like a good night sleep,
In this short life, lot's of stuff, but nothing to keep.

Thank God for the living waters of life,
won for me through Jesus' strife.
I rest.